My Daughter-in-law II: Children with Love Are Smarter

This article is only a record of the author's life, does not mean that the concept of the text is correct, and dissenters can speak as freely as possible, and those who have resonance can praise and reward. After all, there are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand people. Each person's value orientation and non-standard are different. Once again, I respect everyone’s practice of educating their children because the world will be colorful. When we are growing up, we always have a parent for the mother's day. We must always go through the process of cultivating children. When we finally shift from paying attention to our own happiness to paying close attention to our children's happiness, we hope that this day will not come too late. Otherwise, you will miss a lot of time. Will not let you regret it.

In February 2007, the lunar calendar had not yet reached the Spring Festival, and our daughter fell to the ground. Everything has to learn from scratch. Under the one-child policy, there is only one chance to learn. Summarize the success and failure of the child's growth process and give it to friends who are about to enter the next stage of the life drama. (This article is text-based, do some good things recommended at intervals)

The prostitutes began to learn violin in the middle class of the kindergarten. In the first grade of primary school, they began to learn Chinese painting and calligraphy. At present, they have passed the violin level 9 and the Chinese painting level 9. This is some of the paintings painted in the third grade:

The original intention of learning musical instruments is not to be fashionable or to take a part in the entrance exam. Our idea is to let the children have a way to relax themselves. In the future, they can use their time to learn and play, which is better than indulging in games. Later, it was discovered that the benefits of learning musical instruments are not just entertainment, but also exercise perseverance and make the eyes and ears more coordinated.

How to exercise perseverance? Because often many parents are interested in learning musical instruments, learning musical instruments is not really easy and fun. The simple introduction is generally not a problem, but there will be a bottleneck after entry. Due to the higher difficulty and theoretical level, the children’s Interest will be reduced or lost. If parents do not insist, the result is to give up. What we need to do at this time is to encourage supervision and accompany children through this section of the road. There are better "side effects" to learning musical instruments. That is to be able to exercise the brain, especially the coordination of hand, eye, and ear. The process of playing requires listening concentration, flexible movements of the fingers, and sometimes different movements of the hands. This will allow the left and right hemispheres to interact and develop intelligence.

In addition, when a child practices a musical instrument, it is best for parents to be able to accompany them on the side. Whether you can understand or not, at least give the child an encouragement. If you can guide the pitch in time, it is better. How to understand music? You can start with learning basic music theory.

You can also try changing tastes, listening to classical music, and letting your children learn music in everyday life. Can't understand classical music? You can see this book to try:

What instrument to learn? The piano pitch is fixed and easy to get started. The disadvantage is that the cost is high, and the home needs to have room for placement; the advantage of the violin is that it is convenient to carry and does not occupy space, but the pitch is not fixed, the entry is difficult, the investment is not high, and the beginner uses several One hundred yuan to practice the piano can be, according to the child's growth at different times to replace different sizes, when you can pull the full-size piano investment in the purchase of more than 10,000 yuan slightly better piano; Saks easy to get started, easy to carry, the investment is moderate, need teeth, In the air, it is recommended to learn after 9 years of age; the guitar is easy to carry and easy to get started with, but it is more difficult to play the ball and is suitable for self-playing; the drum is relatively simple, the main exercise rhythm, or individual physical activity, but requires sound insulation. In addition to this, Chinese musical instruments such as erhu, flute, guzheng, dulcimer, and cymbals can also be selected to inherit the essence of Chinese culture.

Parents can record the process by which children learn musical instruments. This is also a fortune left for children. Here is a snippet that has been recorded before. The recording video suggests using a professional voice recorder and later using Adobe Premiere. Accompaniment can be played with headphones during recording, without affecting the recording.

When it comes to games, video games are certainly indispensable. I don’t exclude video games, but I’m absolutely in control of when children play video games. If you’re addicted, it’s very hard to do. Video games can also be screened appropriately, such as recommending more puzzle games to children and playing fewer upgrade games. Such as the classic Sokoban, Bloxorz, Forest Blazers, Backgammon, etc., Apple's cut rope, crocodile naughty bath, Monument Valley, sticky world, save the orange, are good children's games, You can exercise your child's spatial imagination and overall planning skills. If you have conditions, you can buy a somatosensory Xbox One, play watermelon, exercise, and dance with your child.

Brain-to-hand games play more. When the prostitute was in third grade, she learned the third-order Rubik's Cube and participated in the school's Rubik's Cube Competition to win the first place. After learning Sudoku, he was also selected to participate in the school math contest to participate in the city's competition. These games are very effective for developing intelligence.

Manual is very beneficial to the child's observation, imagination and hands-on ability. The transformation into human beings is due to the creation of tools with both hands, thus changing the world. The same goes for children. The earlier they train their hands, the more they can exercise their brains. In early childhood, you can do some simple craftsmanship, origami, beading, etc. You can play more complex handicrafts at a slightly larger point.

Handmaid origami handmade

After the child is a little older, he can play cross-stitch, yanked paper, coloring hand-painting, pottery and so on. Not only exercise hand-brain coordination, but also exercise patience.

The niece's yan paper works

Well done by hand, so that we can also let her safely use a knife to do some fruit modeling.

Flowers and grasses raise small animals to cultivate children's love, sense of responsibility, and observation. My family's prostitutes are more interested in more meat. At the beginning, they also took a lot of detours and kept a lot of them. Now that they have gradually gained some experience, more meat is beginning to grow better. Parents should all encourage their children not to give up because of a momentary setback. This is also a way to cultivate perseverance.

Of course, if you want to raise more meat, you don't want to buy it, you buy it, and you can earn more money by yourself. We usually don’t give money to prostitutes, and we also save all our lucky money. We must not spend it. Only when she achieved good results in the competition or exam, she was given an additional purchase fund. This purchase fund not only has reward functions but also disciplinary functions. When she makes a mistake, she must deduct the purchase fund. Because it will affect her plan for flowering, so she would deliberately reduce some silly things, but also serve two purposes.

Girls can grow flowers. What about boys who don't like it? It can raise small animals such as turtles, goldfish, silkworms, hamsters, parrots and the like. Those who do not resent cats and dogs can also be raised, but they should pay attention to hygiene and should not raise too large or ferocious.

Every year we raise silkworm once

There is hardly a single child who does not like painting. This is also true of my family. Some parents may be afraid that children will scramble on the walls without painting them, or they will be scolded for scribbling. This is very undesirable. If the wall is dirty, you can brush it again. If the child's nature is deprived, there will be no more. What parents need to do is just to guide them. Let them have a place to paint and learn to draw.

Before the kindergarten class, you can teach them some easy ways to draw. Don't teach them in a complicated way, which may make them lose interest in painting. After attending kindergarten, if they are interested in painting, they can sign up for some painting classes and learn simple techniques such as gouache and cartoons. Encourage them to use their imagination and add something that is not in class. My family's prostitutes lacked innovation on this matter. According to Hugo's paintings, it would be difficult for her to add her own things. This should be the feedback we give her less freedom.

This is a poster that the prostitutes did when they participated in the school brigade election in the fourth grade. In class, she also participated in the drawing of each blackboard report. The specialty of painting gave her the opportunity to participate in more work and get more comprehensive exercise.

Some people may ask, where did you come from so many hours to learn this school? Time is squeezed out! Before doing anything that she thinks is interesting, she must finish her homework first, otherwise everything will be avoided. This also allows children to know how to increase efficiency, which is to prepare for more enjoyable play. At present, the prostitutes go to the fourth grade of elementary school and go to the teacher to learn the piano once a week. At night, they practice piano at home for half an hour each day. Once a week, they go to the teacher to study Chinese painting and usually do not paint. Reading a book at night for half an hour, but outside of your own free time. Home cable television stopped for many years and never watched TV at home. The weekend can be seen in the grandparents' home, mainly like to see science and education channels.

Hobbies are varied and can not be confined to the above few. Bao Da Bao Ma can be excavated according to the child's characteristics. However, learning is also appropriate and can only be focused if there is a focus on training.

The next part of the notice: sow a good habit. The main contents are: early morning sleep and early rise, finishing the house, breakfast, reading, learning to share, focus and self-review, so stay tuned.

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